Tuesday, September 8, 2009

blogging has become responsiblity

pardon me for saying so but it is for me now. not that people are looking forward to read my blog but i juz feel like it is my responsibility to update it when i still can. like if u are surfing the net without having to look up for any information on assgnment, n see that there is a space to post ur entry, blogging has really become a responsibility for me.

sambung cite malam td, when the boys threw something dangerous at my face for the second time, guess i needed to do sumthing bout it. n that sumthing was teaching him a lesson. i still remember the way i dashed at him dramatically n grabbed him at his arms (the six year old boy wif unacceptable behaviour) n screamed at his face at the top of my lung. i screamed frantically but i dunno wat did i scream. i dunno what has got into me at that time, i was sooooo mad i did that in front of the mother(bcoz that stupid boy was running at his mother). people around me were looking with their curious look. their faces were saying diz: wat's wrong this girl? kene posses ke ape?n i dont give a damn wif wat they were saying coz sabar mmg dh ilang mase tu. n kalo ikutkan ati mmg rse nk spank je dat boy kc pengsan.

n then at that very moment, i heard the mom asked her second son to go look for his father. afraid that i might kill his son kot. the next thing i knew i was sitting on a bench wif the sound of blood running at my ears. my heart was beating like hell for the uncontrolled anger n the screaming. as i'd expected the mom came to me and scolding me for doing dat to his son.pdhal aku screaming je belum cekik lg anak die tu. she accused me for being childish n making a scene in front of a crowd of people. i pretend not to listen to her but i know that some guys there who are very used to the boy agree wif me silently that her son should really be getting into henry gurney as soon as possible, or else somebody might get killed. .

after all, i'm glad the screaming served him well. n my auntie is always by my side no matter wat happen. n grandmom too. they know the boy very well to agree wif me. and the incident last night has really taught me a good lesson. a very good one. the lesson of how to raise ur kid the appropriate way. when i say appropriate, i mean right.it may be way too long for me to raise a kid of my own, but probably other people should know how to take care of theirs without people complaining the children's uncontrolled mischievousness.

firstly, kids should be punished if they have misdone, and this should be done right there on the spot where u catch them of the misdeed. show them who is charge n they will remember it forever. for example, if ur boy says some swearing words, u really need to do sumthing bout it. first, take some chillies in the fridge and feed the boy with them. u only do this one time. and it sticks in their head forever. the sight of kene cili dgn lada will always role in their head when they sleep at night. next time they are thinking of doing it again, they wont, taking ur past cruel punishment into consideration. that is not all, they will become afraid of you once in a while for ur active participation in punishing the misdoers. hahaha.

secondly, if they are asking for something ridiculous, let say, handphone or motorcycle to go to school or internet connection at home maybe,(and of course this only applies for ur kids who are still schooling), juz tell them bout ur story in the past when people didnt even wear shoes to school, n nasi lemak was still 10 sen, and ice cream was nowhere to be seen, n if they still dont get the message, that means NO. a no-no answer will make them realize that they wont get things without having to fight wif a concrete reason. let them say watever they want at ur back, but don ever let them disobey u, coz when they have turned into teenagers, the challenge will be a lot difficult and the method will become different too. and this i will touch in depth in my next entry.

9 comments:

Ana Syukriah said...

zz,couldn't agree more with u.i'd do the same to that damn f***ing boy.and his mom was like WTH! anak dah macam tu,boleh lagi bela.eiy geramnye aku!

amaL ^-^ said...

tot mmg s**l.. sumtym when i saw him.. i just lke nk cekik2 jep budak tu!! hoho..actly tot bru 4-5 years old kot.. klu xslp la.. but he's really look older than his age isn't it?? haha.. n then.. kak ida tu mmg xptt scold u, angah.. da thu ank tu nakal tahap karma still nk blame others.. if we're in tot's place.. sure da kne maki tol x?? dsr x pndi jage ank tol!! d**n!!

amaL ^-^ said...

tot mmg s**l.. sumtym when i saw him.. i just lke nk cekik2 jep budak tu!! hoho..actly tot bru 4-5 years old kot.. klu xslp la.. but he's really look older than his age isn't it?? haha.. n then.. kak ida tu mmg xptt scold u, angah.. da thu ank tu nakal tahap karma still nk blame others.. if we're in tot's place.. sure da kne maki tol x?? dsr x pndi jage ank tol!! d**n!!

Zulaika said...

its not like I'm taking side here..
its just that i dont think u shpuld do that in front of his mother thats it..but thinking about that boy really makes me annoyed. I dont really like kids so its not my place tp say anything kan..
but since we're still on this subject i think that kid deserve a slap.. maybe 2... that should do it..

Salju Sakura said...

salam...erm..sy xreti sgt nak speaking mcm kwn2 awk tu,rase gune bhs melayu pun,sume bleh fhm kan..xtau la,kalu ade kwn dr overc,harap maaf ye..erm..sy rase that boy,mmg 'agak'keterlaluan...for a girl mcm awk,mmg xpatut,die wat camtu..lain la lelaki,biase,kami bleh bertahan utk 2,3 kali hingga sampi satu tahap..n mungkin lbh dr tahap tu,maybe kami pun akan bertindak mcm awk..erm..mgkin jika sy ditempat awk,sy akan boikot budak tu..buat xtau je..mcm die x wujud..kalau die dtg dkt..sy lari jauh2...maybe awk akan kate,kite xbersalah,wat pe nak lari kan?..tp sy rase that slh satu cara utk xnak sakitkan hati sape2..terutama diri sendiri...insyaAllah,bile kita buat baik kat org sikit,ALLAH akan balas berlipat kali ganda utk kita...erm..sori,rase terlamapu panjang komen ni.xnak post pun x pe,biar delete,tp sblm tu,bace dl,as my pendapat.(^_^)

zz said...

to cik kiah: thanx for agreeing. i appreciate u for menjiwai my watak.

to amal n zul: balik kite cite kat umah

to salju sakura: thanx for ur idea n opinion, mmg sy rse betol sgt. cube kalo sy x dok dekat2 dgn die. x jd camni.mmg nampak bacul. tp avoiding is better than sakitkan ati sape2. thus, i agree wif u.

Zulaika said...

to salju sakura: I,m not her friend and that amal is not her friend either. I'm her sister dude.. amal=cousin..hihi

zz said...

to zulaika: who cares?

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